It is as if we are two mountain climbers. We are each on our own mountain across a valley from one another. I may be able to see a path up your mountain, not because I have climbed your mountain, not because I am at the top shouting down to you, but because I am standing in a place where I can see things that you can’t see because you are actually on the mountain...My advantage here is not that I am bigger, better, or stronger. It is simply an advantage of perspective. On the other hand, there are things about your mountain that I cannot see, that I will have to rely on you to tell me about. For example, whether the mountain you are trying to climb is the “right” mountain or not is a matter of personal values. Only you can tell me that. And although I may be able to coach you along some path that I see, I cannot climb for you. So you see, you really have the more difficult job.